You know
what I decided last night as I was watching my first grader play at a boy scout
social? We have a problem in our society--an authority problem in that no one
wants to follow the leader any more. Here’s why that authority thing hit me.
The cub master was attempting to corral the scouts by numbering them off for
game stations. There were probably twenty adults standing there watching him.
And thinking I know it all, I whispered to my husband; “Why’s he doing it that
way it’s not going to work.”
My husband’s
response? “Just let the Cub Master do his thing; he’ll get it figured out.”
Now, it’s probably important to tell you that my husband is in a management
position and has been for ten years. He knows what it’s like to be at the top--that
it is, indeed, lonely. No matter what you do there’s always going to be people
who disagree with you, and consequently, don’t like you.
I took his
advice to heart. ‘Yea,’ I thought to myself, ‘this guy is the den master’ and I
need to respect that. That little thought led me to this great title, Follow
the Leader. When you stop and think about it, how many of us really do that
anymore. Whether we’re talking about
the president, a teacher, a mayor, or your boss, we all at times have a beef
with people in authority positions. And, let’s be honest, it’s because we figure
we can do it better.
Back to the
scouting picnic. I was in charge of one of the games. While I was handling it
the best I knew how, another parent came over and began to talk over me. Maybe he didn’t like the way I was running the
game. Maybe he thought his way was better. Or maybe, he was just trying to be
helpful. Regardless, I thought to myself, ‘Look buddy, I volunteered to lead
this game, if you think you could have done it better than why didn’t you
volunteer?
Again, it
got me to thinking about this issue of respect. When I was in grade school, a Christian
School, we learned the Ten Commandments. Believe it or not there is a
commandment regarding this very topic. It goes something like this, “Honor your
father and mother that it may go well with you, and that you may enjoy long
life on the earth.” It was in that commandment that we learned it was important
to honor not only our parents, but other people in positions of authority over
us; teachers, police officers, teachers, governing bodies, teachers
and, well, you get the gist.
Romans 13:1 Submission to the Authorities
13 Let every person be subject
to the governing authorities. For there
is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by
God. (ESV)
Wow. That’s a pretty big statement, isn’t
it? There is no authority except from God. Whether we agree with them or not,
whether they’re doing a good job or not—God decides who will rise and who will
fall. It’s His job to judge, not ours.
So the question might be what do you do
with a leader who is pure evil or may be running our society into the ground?
You do what you should for any enemy of yours; you pray for them.
Titus 3:1-2 Pray for All People
2 First of all, then, I urge that
supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all
people, 2 for
kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet
life, godly and dignified in every way. (ESV)
God spells
it out pretty clearly in the above verses, ‘Remind them to be
submissive to rulers and authorities. Even the ones we hate? Yes.
God
instituted authority. He wants us to pray for our leaders. Not bash them. Not
seethe over every single thing they are doing wrong. But pray with faith,
patience, and hope so we can live godly and peaceful lives.
There you
have it. Not so popular I know. But last time I checked we weren’t called to be
popular, we were called to do the right thing--the unexpected thing; pray for our
leaders and other authorities, and trust God to do the rest.
Obedience is not something a lot of Americans are generally known for, particularly in places outside the South. Southerners are more hierarchical in culture, so we are something of an anomaly in American society (I guess we always have been.) Particularly in the West and Upper Midwest where there enough "cowboys" reared on rugged individualism, this is particularly true. That's been true since the days of the Wild West frontier.
ReplyDeleteI think what has changed, to up the ante if you will, in American culture has been a number of sociological factors. In the political realm, there was the fallout from Watergate and the Baby Boomer hippie rebellion counterculture in the 1960's and 70's that never went completely went away. The way Washington DC seems increasingly corrupt and dysfunctional, I suppose it is no wonder we don't really trust the government.
I think there is also the Generation X culture of people who basically got raised as latch key kids and just went home after school every day and watched MTV or whatever all afternoon. We do things our way, and if we don't get our way, we'd just as soon go off and do our own thing (You see this over and over again in culture: in churches, in civic groups, in the military.
I think there is also this cultural notion of self esteem that we seem bent on reinforcing in kids. Every kid is special! It's like Garrison Keilor on Prairie Home Companion: Lake Wobegon: Where all the kids are above average! If I'm special, then that means the hierarchy that might possibly tell me otherwise or not do what I want is not.
Love that you've taken time to respond to my recent blogs. It shows that you're a true priest at heart and have a lot of gifts to share.
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